Palm Springs has all the charm and romance a boy or girl or non-gendered human could ever dream possible. We are the rare resort town that doesn’t rely on the crashing surf (although you can surf in Palm Springs.) And what we don’t have, we make up for in panache. We’ve got that Hallmark, small-town vibe with a wee twist or two. There’s something for everyone in Palm Springs, no matter your idea of romance. Judgement is something we leave up to Judy. (Pick your own Judy.)
I’m going to tell you about some very romantic boutique hotels that are dressed to impress, and a perfect fit for lovers. We can’t forget restaurants for the big night, and a few sights you must see. Some might even be “pop the question” worthy, depending on the question.
Romantic boutique hotels and resorts in Palm Springs
Korakia Pensione — Located slightly southwest of downtown (still walkable), this place is as Mediterranean as it gets. Moroccan influenced too, it’s all peace and love. There are no TVs, nor other distractions from the ooh and aah of it all.
L’Horizon — One of three Steve Hermann hotels in Palm Springs, L’Horizon is first class. If you love the swank of an estate feel, this is your invitation.
Lucille — A large pool in a Mediterranean courtyard, kitchenettes are available, and you’re within easy walking distance of downtown. This hotel was one of my friends’ favorites during the last Walk of the Inns.
Dive — The rooms are each their own work of art, the pool is big and swimmable, and the grounds have whimsy at every turn, with quiet corners carved into the large space where you can chat or canoodle.
Ingleside Estate — Once owned by Ruth Hardy (it was an inn, but you could only stay by invitation — and you had to be “someone”). Purchased during the Rat Pack era by Mel Haber, it was the spot in Palm Springs, and it wasn’t just open to his friends. Today you can stay on the estate and feel the historic vibes. You’ve got a pool, your bungalow, and Melvyn’s, a restaurant and bar with entertainment.
La Maison — On the south end of Palm Springs, you’ll love the king or queen feather beds with down duvets. Often compared to the south of France, it’s the perfect setting for that romantic getaway weekend. The coffee bar and breakfast get you up and ready to jump on one of their bicycles and ride downtown.
Amin Casa — If you’re looking to be bathed in Hollywood history, you can be a guest at Gloria Swanson’s old home. It’s a beautiful space, located just west of the heart of downtown, close to Spencer’s restaurant.
Villa Royale — Also on the south end of Palm Springs, and tucked back into the Deepwell area, this Mediterranean villa is magnificent and cozy at the same time. There’s a huge refreshing swim pool and Del Rey, a first class restaurant.
The Velvet Rope — This luxurious nine-room boutique hotel is in the Old Las Palmas neighborhood, and was originally built in 1952 by renowned architect Herbert W. Burns. Today, it is a tribute to Old Hollywood, and each accommodation, designed by David Rios, has its own glamorous theme.
La Serena Villas — Each secluded private villa has a patio, complete with a romantic claw foot tub, fire pit, and built in benches. Azucar, a lovely little restaurant, is located on property, as is their spa, Whispers.
Just for men
Santiago — Tropical, relaxed, and groovy with that island feel, Santiago has been one of the premiere men’s clothing-optional hotels since 1991. It not only has the biggest pool around, but guests can also enjoy the gardens and 24-hour cantina.
Desert Paradise — The 12-room resort puts its guests first, ensuring that staffers go above and beyond when it comes to service. The property boasts a pool, spa, outdoor shower, steam room, dry sauna, and lush grounds.
The Hacienda at Warm Sands — This 10-room resort is located in Warm Sands, and feels like a private sanctuary. Lush foliage, a Japanese water feature, Saltillo-tiled patios and walkways, Southwestern plants, an outdoor fireplace, in-ground spa, and two large swimming pools are what you’ll find here. Breakfast and lunch are also offered on property.
Day play
The Palm Springs Aerial Tramway — Take a ride to the top of the mountain and see the entire Coachella Valley. Question popping potential.
The Spa at Séc-he – One of USA Today’s 10 Best in many areas, this spa (operated by the tribe) has every luxury a body could want.
Desert Tasty Tours — Take your sweetheart on a tasting tour of downtown Palm Springs. A little walk, a lotta nosh, and some history for three hours.
Tahquitz Canyon — One of the most romantic hikes you’ll ever take. After about 45 minutes of non-treacherous walking (and a few short natural stairs), you’ll end up at a lagoon brimming with water supplied by the waterfall that’s replenishing it round the clock. Definitely a question-popping setting.
Romantic repasts
Some classy dinner options for the big night that will show your lover just how thoughtful you are:
Farm — One of the best dinner services and meal experiences I’ve ever had.
Del Rey — I went on paella night, and it was terrific, but you can order whatever you like. It’s cozy and romantic inside.
Spencer’s — This is the OG restaurant everyone’s been going to for years, celebrating anything there is to celebrate in style. It’s still all class.
Jake’s — Super cozy, with an outdoor patio to boot, I’m told they have a citrus cake that’s outstanding. The rest of the food cracks up there too.
So•Pa — I spent Thanksgiving here once, and I felt so posh. The grounds are lovely and the food is five-star.
Melvyn’s — Frank Sinatra’s favorite was the Steak Diane. Located in the Ingleside Estate, it’s just oozing with 1960s and ’70s history.
Mr. Lyons — The outside looks nothing like the inside. Outside, it’s all English pub, inside it’s swanky and bright. Order the rolls.
The Purple Room — The weekends are name artists in the jazz world, and the food is delightful. If you’re looking for dinner and a show, this is all Rat Pack feel with a 21st century twist.
Hope this gets your wheels turning so that your partner will say, “I’ve got the best lover ever. Let me tell you what they did for me for Valentine’s Day.” Ssssh….you don’t have to tell them where you got the idea, it’ll be our little secret.
