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Dads are notoriously hard to please, even on the gifting front (just mine?). Personally, I was never able to beat anything my sister got him. But then I figured out that I could offer him an experience, so we’d go places together. I wish he was still around so I could show him my Palm Springs. He’d love it. So, if you’ll allow me, I’d love to help you plan that perfect getaway for you and your Dad/Daddy in our little slice of paradise.

Let’s start with accommodations:

Old Ranch Inn: There are eight rooms available at the western-themed, architecturally historic resort. Every room is around the pool, so there’s no long walk like on larger properties. Just steps away from downtown, it’s a great choice.

The Wescott: Art Deco, old Hollywood style with a nice pool for swimming some laps. A top Palm Springs lodging option, it has earned a TripAdvisor Certificate of Excellence every year since 2013.

The Westcott’s pool area. Photo courtesy of The Westcott

Ingleside Inn: If a hotel could write a book, hoo boy what stories it could tell. Luckily, former owner Mel Haber did write a book, and spills all the secrets. The bar in the on-property restaurant Melvyn’s is so old Hollywood, in your mind’s eye you can see Dean Martin leaning across the bar to talk to Dinah Shore, or Debbie Reynolds laughing with bestie Ruta Lee. The hotel and the restaurant are first class, as is the entertainment.

The Three-Fifty Hotel: Sweet 10-suite hotel with fabulous poolside views of the mountains.

Once you’ve got your hotel locked down, it’s time to figure out the rest of the experience. If Dad is a golfer, there are SO many options, you can read all about them here.

There’s nothing like the feeling of being behind the wheel of a sporty car on a racetrack, so if Dad’s into cars (and I’m going to pull a statistic right out of thin air and say 95% of all men love cars), book the ultimate driving experience at the BMW Performance Track. He’ll be talking about it for years to come.

The Palm Springs Air Museum is pretty cool. Even cooler? You can ride in an old war bird in the sky.

The Palm Springs Air Museum. Photo courtesy of Visit Palm Springs

Windmill Tours: From golf cart tours to self-driving tours, it’s all about the energy of these turbines, how they work, and how much electricity they produce. I hear it’s marvelous. Likely not for toddlers, though.

June 16 and 17: Baseball with Palm Springs Power. 7 p.m.

If Dad’s into art, take him to the Palm Springs Art Museum, and to one of the many galleries around town.

A nice spot to have a coffee is in the Corridor Courtyard. Choose from Ernest Coffee or Koffi (both local coffee shops) and Mod Cafe (all vegan, breakfast, and lunch) then go behind the buildings into a magical little garden away from the hubbub of Palm Canyon.

Sports bars — there’s The Village (they have a Father’s Day luncheon), Shamrock’s Irish Pub, and Hair of the Dog (pool, darts, and, you know, booze).

Small batch brewers: Las Palmas Brewers, La Quinta Brewery Tap Room

Happy Hour: Las Casuelas, Lulu (at the bar)

Lulu California Bistro in downtown Palm Springs. Photo courtesy of Visit Palm Springs

Dinner:

Spencer’s: Book the Bougainvillea Room.

The Purple Room Supper Club: Check the lineup and check with Dad. They have a lot of great jazz singers, and Sundays is the fabulous The Judy Show.

Johnny Costa’s: Old school Italian fine dining. The chicken parm and eggplant parm are delicioso!

Del Rey: Great drinks and tapas in the Villa Royale. Small space makes great memories.

After dinner:

V Wine Lounge and Martini Bar has a great selection of wines and fun cocktails, including martinis. It’s got a cool, retro vibe with its mid-century modern decor. Sometimes there’s karaoke and sometimes there’s other forms of entertainment. But even on a quiet night, you’ll enjoy the ambiance, and the staff is helpful and friendly, too.

Breakfast: 

Bit O’Country: Locally owned, great American and Mexican cuisine.

Elmer’s: My favorite breakfast, because hash browns.

Billy Reed’s: It’s the most old school, Midwest spot in Palm Springs.

Pinocchio’s: The home fries are made with baked potatoes, and they have free flowing champagne and Bloody Marys. It’s a party.

For something different, on the South Course in the south end of Palm Springs is Indian Canyons Golf. The link I’m giving you indicates both restaurants are open, which is news to me. Go here.

Indian Canyons South. Photo courtesy of Visit Palm Springs

And now for the Daddies.

Clothing-optional resorts for men:

The Hacienda at Warm Sands

Santiago Resort

Desert Paradise Resort

Vista Grande

El Mirasol Villas

^^all of these are great options for couples

The relaxing Hacienda at Warm Sands pool. Photo courtesy of The Hacienda at Warm Sands

Brunch/Dinner: 

Blackbook

Tropicale

Trio (Saturdays and Sundays)

To get the full Palm Springs experience, head on down to Arenas Road (Blackbook is there) and check out all of the clubs. Gay Desert Guide will be a big help.

For the Sugar Daddy — you’re footing the tab, go to Paris! Looking for romance not requiring a passport? Try these resorts on for size: L’Horizon (swanky beyond swank), Smoke Tree Ranch (so exclusive most locals have never been), and Casa Cody (the romance of old Palm Springs) in downtown.

Spend one entire day in the Spa at Séc-he. If you book a service over $200 you get access to all of the pools, baths, salt caves, etc. Several spots to lunch inside. I hear it’s worth every penny.

Wishing a Happy Father’s Day to all the Dads out there in the wild. I hope you get to spend some quality time with your kids, and that they like you. In which case, see you in Palm Springs soon!

There is a bit of contention as to who invented the hamburger. 

Some say it was invented in 1880 by Fletcher Davis of Athens, Texas. He served fried ground beef patties on bread with mustard and onions, and later sold his dish at the 1904 World’s Fair. 

In 1885, the Menches brothers claimed to have invented the hamburger. No proof is given.

Then there was Louis Lassen of New Haven, Connecticut. In 1900, he put ground beef between slices of bread. He sold his burgers at his lunch wagon, Louis’ Lunch.

Otto Kuase is said to have invented the hamburger in 1891 by cooking a beef patty in butter and topping it with a fried egg. 

And finally, 15-year-old Charlie Nagreen supposedly sold Hamburg steaks from a stall at an annual fair (no date given).

All that said, the bottomline is sometimes you just want a good burger. I feel you. I stopped eating red meat five years ago, and I missed that comfort more than you could know. The only time I ever drink a Coca-Cola (never Pepsi) is with a burger and fries, as it completes the trifecta of the flavor palate. Prior to cutting out red meat, I ate at most of these places, so they are mostly first person recommendations, and it turns out most people agree with me. Who’da thunk? As the late, great Jackie Gleason used to say, “And away we go”:

Gimme the meats!

Tony’s Grill and Bar — This is the second Tony’s location in the area, and its burger often tops “best of” lists in the Coachella Valley. I went to the original location with a pal, and it was de-licious. The only problem is trying to choose which burger — the options are endless. 

Zin American Bistro — The food here is good, and that includes the burger. This has taken the number one spot as the Best of the Valley a few times as well, and they have a wonderful patio for people watching. Great wines too.

The Heyday — Home of the SmashBurger; the french fries are delicious, and I usually don’t like crinkle cut, but theirs are firm, hot, and tasty. The tunes are always banging and the employees are happy. 10/10, no complaints.  

Billy Reed’s — Enter on both sides, Palm Canyon and Indian Canyon, and a stone’s throw north of Vista Chino. If you’re from the Midwest, you’ll feel right at home at Billy’s. When you get the burger, try their housemade potato chips. Old timers love to stop by and grab them as a snack when they leave.

Smokin’ Burgers — Stick to the beef burgers at this mostly local spot. Good place to watch sports.

1501 Gastropub — They have a juicy angus beef burger called the 1501, and the atmosphere is upscale but relaxing. Terrific spot next to Arrive Palm Springs. 

Eight4Nine — or 849, is located where Palm Springs’ first post office used to live and the name is the address. This restaurant is gorgeous, and owner Willie Rhine is very involved with worthy causes and the arts, locally. It’s one of the places people go for special occasions and it’s not the least bit stuffy. It’s just a beautifully decorated space offering delicious food with indoor and outdoor dining. Save the burger for happy hour at the cheerful bar that greets you upon arrival.  

Bongo Johnny’s — You can read the very loving description of their burgers on their website, but here’s the gist: “Gold Canyon Premium Angus Chuck Burgers using only the finest USDA upper 2/3 Choice beef sourced from a select group of Angus cattle that meet our stringent 10-quality specifications.”  

Tonga Hut — Founded in 1958, Tonga is the oldest tiki bar in Palm Springs. In three more years it will be 70! Along with your tiki cocktail, you have the choice of six different sliders. You’re looking for the Angus beef. The others are pork, spam, and fish.

Veggie burgers  

Some repeat listings here, but those who want veggie only will appreciate me. The rest of you can stop reading if you’d like.

Chef Tanya’s — Big favorite of vegans from everywhere. Located in an industrial area close to Gene Autry and Sunny Dunes, many folks will pass the first Palm Springs exit and shoot for this one so they can stop here before they head to their small boutique hotel.

Tyler’s — Yep, they’ve got a veggie burger, and the place is not only a local and visitor favorite, it has a terrific history. Located in La Plaza, which was designed by architect Harry Williams and included what was Palm Springs’ first stagecoach stop. This eventually became a Greyhound stop, and is now Tyler’s Burger. At least, that’s the story I was told.

Eight4Nine — As it is above, so it is below. Same ambiance and terrific food, and a veggie burger.

The Heyday — Their answer to a veggie burger is portobello mushroom ground up and formed into a patty. It’s a personal favorite.

1501 Gastropub — Skip the meat and get a vegan Beyond Burger. Everything is good here, so I will be going soon to try that burger!

Palm Greens Cafe — The vegan mushroom patty melt and the vegan tempeh reuben are what you’re looking for here. They use all of the finest organic ingredients and have the freshest eggs I’ve ever had. Deep yellow and super tasty. I haven’t yet had the burger here, but your meat eating friend can also get an Angus burger, so everyone wins (except the cow).